Encouraging Facts about Bed Wetting
All news about bed wetting is
not discouraging.
Although bed wetting is very common
among children, almost all children who wet their beds on a
regular basis do stop eventually. Some stop on their own
without needing any type of treatment while others may try a
couple of different treatments before finding the one that is
successful for them. If you wet
your bed or if you know someone who does, realize that there is
nothing abnormal or weird about you.
You have no serious physical or mental problem. In fact no
one really knows exactly why some people experience bed wetting
and others do not. It usually has nothing to do with your body
functioning improperly or problems with your thoughts or your
feelings. It is important to surround yourself with people who
love you and understand what you are going through. Also it is
good to be able to openly communicate with those you trust
about this embarrassing problem. Do not allow yourself to get
so discouraged that you stop enjoying your life and/or allow it
to damage your self-esteem.
It cannot be emphasized enough- bed wetting is an
unfortunate set of circumstances that often starts for no
obvious reason but also ends all of the sudden with little if
any outside intervention needed. Research studies have shown
that in any given year approximately fifteen out of one hundred
children just stop wetting their beds without the need for
treatment or even a visit to the doctor. However in most cases
it probably is a good idea to talk openly and honestly with
your parents about this problem and then to go see your doctor
just so he can help put your mind at ease and also rule out any
physical problems such as a urinary tract infection or
constipation.
When you go to see the doctor he or
she is going to want to examine you and maybe even send you for
a few tests. As well he will ask you questions about your bed
wetting episodes in order to form a clearer picture of the
problem you are experiencing. Try not to feel too embarrassed
and keep in mind that your doctor sees a lot of children all of
the time and many of then are likely to have the same problems
as you. Be as honest and as clear in your answers as possible
and feel free to ask the doctor questions about your condition
as well. He or she is very likely to understand your anxiety
and will want to make you as comfortable and relaxed as
possible.
There is more good news. Although
you cannot cure it completely by changing your routine or
behavior, there are ways to help keep yourself as dry as
possible during the night. First of all don’t drink any
beverages within a window of two to three hours before bedtime
and in particular avoid drinks that contain caffeine such as
chocolate drinks and colas. Always go the bathroom before you
go to bed, and if you feel the urge to urinate as you are
slipping off to sleep then by all means throw off your covers
and get yourself into the bathroom before you have an
accident.
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